How did you cope yesterday? Did you get some good results? We are now up to day 4 of the 7 day Creating A Successful Blog Challenge. Challenges are going to get a bit harder now, and today’s challenge will take a bit more time then previous ones. Today you are going to form a relationship/partnership with another blogger in your niche. Don’t be too stressed out if you have no idea how to go about this, we have some tips!
Find A Friend First
The first step to forming a relationship with another blogger is to find another blogger. Sounds simple doesn’t it. Well it is. You may already read other blogs in your niche, so you may have already found a successful candidate. If not, you better get out there and start looking.
Have a search for keywords in your niche in Google Blog Search, or other blog directories that you know of, and see if you can find any sites that you think you can form a relationship with the blogger. Make sure it is a site that is around the same age, and type as your blog with a similar subscriber count as you. As a tip, if they use Feedburner as their RSS feed, add /~fc/ in the URL between the.com and their feed URL, and if the count is enabled, you should be able to see how many subscribers they have.
If you aren’t having any luck, try doing search on related:yourblogdomain.com.
Still no luck? You can always visit commentators on other blogs that you have found to see if there site is related to you. Because you will be surprised how many people are in the same boat as you. If you want, comment on this post below your blog name and niche, and you may find your friend without leaving this page.
One final place I recommend that you look is over at Twitter. Go to the Twitter Search Page, type of few keywords and see if you find any people you think you want to be friends with.
You may also want to look into our Exclusive Group offer if you are eligible. This is an exclusive group of bloggers who work together to help build up each others blogs.
Don’t Rush Into It
Now that you have found a successful candidate to be friends with, don’t rush into it by asking them to be a friend with you straight away. Ease your way in. Comment on a few of his blogs posts. The author will regularly see your name appear, and he may comment back on your own blog. Also re-tweet some of their posts and submit them to social media websites that I mentioned in day 3. They may recognise you, and again, return the favour.
Now that your new friend is visiting your site as well, write an article that promotes one of his articles or his whole blog. You may read something over on their blog that you think is really interesting, so you may want to share it on your blog. Don’t directly copy his content, but take their main views, link to the post, and have a discussion about it. If you are unclear what I mean, do something like Tom from Build That List has done with me. (Please note that Tom has sold his site since that post was published)
Just Pop The Question
You should now be at a stage where you are commenting and re-tweeting on each others posts, and linking to each others posts in each others posts. It is now time to pop the question and contact the other blog to see if you can officially form some type of relationship/partnership/friendship. When you do so, make sure you introduce yourself (if you haven’t already in your comments), explain what you have done (promoted their work, re-tweeted), why it is a good opportunity to be friends, offer them something in return and then have a virtual bear or cocktail.
Extra Challenge: Form another two or three friends. Involve each other, promote each others work and help each other out.
If you have any questions about today’s challenge or would like some extra help, please ask in the comments below!